Hello, I hope you're all doing well and this is my second post.

I don't know how to make a dating post but tbh i am looking for a genuine and serious partner, I am looking for a partner who will support me while I'm working hard. I don't need that partner someone who comes into my life only after I have built my legacy.

Here's my theory: you can learn more about someone from one unexpected conversation than from twenty perfectly written introductions.

For example, I'd rather hear you talk passionately about what you love than tell me you're "fun loving and easygoing."

I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga, and enjoy everything from gaming to mindfulness and strange questions about life.

I'm close to my family, curious about people, and usually the one who remembers some tiny detail you mentioned weeks ago. I enjoy understanding people. I like hearing about their experiences, the things they've overcome, what makes them laugh, and what they hope to become.

I like a woman who's kind, has a mind of her own, works on herself and isn't afraid to be a little silly. Someone who can talk about serious things but also laugh when absolutely nothing makes sense. Someone who wants to build a life together eventually, but understands that the best relationships take time.

I don't need every day to be exciting. I'd be happy with grocery shopping together, cooking something questionable, or going for a drive with absolutely no destination. But first, we should probably find out if we enjoy each other's company.

I don't know whether we'd get along. Maybe we'd disagree about something silly within the first ten minutes. Maybe we'd discover we have the same oddly specific obsession. Maybe we'd just have a really good conversation.

But I like the possibility of meeting someone who eventually becomes the first person I want to tell about my day.

And I think that's worth taking a chance on.

So, stranger, shall we see what happens? :)

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I suppose I ought to begin with the conventional introductions, though I have never been particularly good at them, but, well, in the spirit of getting the boring stuff out of the way right away (cue: me), I am a writer, poet, academic, lecturer, scholar, scientist (physicist, to be more precise), and AI engineer/scientist (I am, if I may add, absolutely terrible at more than half my jobs). I’ve spent most of my life in Europe, and am probably the coolest and funniest person you have met today, unless you’ve seen a raccoon doing yoga, in which case, fair enough, I simply can’t compete with that level of comedy.

The truth is that I have always found introducing myself rather difficult, there is something strangely artificial about trying to reduce a person to a paragraph, as though we were all tidy little collections of interests, accomplishments, preferences, and carefully selected adjectives.

I am, I fear, a rather poor exhibitor of myself, the moment I am asked to explain who I am, something in me seems to retreat into a corner and refuse to cooperate. I have thought about this far too many times, and after twenty-two years of living, I remain quite confidently the worst person I know at introducing myself. It is a curious deficiency, I can talk for hours about some obscure historical event nobody asked about, become unnecessarily invested in the moral character of a long-dead philosopher, or spend an afternoon following some completely accidental question down a rabbit hole from which there is no respectable return, but ask me to describe myself and suddenly I am reduced to, "Well... I like things." Marcus Aurelius wrote that "very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking." I believe him more on good days than bad ones, but I keep the sentence nearby regardless.

I like small walks, I like learning something new quite by accident, especially when I have no business knowing it and consequently become far too pleased with myself for having discovered it, I like talking to people, though I think I like the moment when talking quietly turns into listening even more. There is something rather lovely about reaching that point in a conversation where neither person seems particularly concerned with keeping it going, and yet somehow neither wishes to leave it either.

I am very fond of my own company, which is perhaps fortunate, because I have had rather a lot of it. Solitude has its pleasures, one may disappear into one's thoughts without having to explain where one has gone, and occasionally return with something resembling an answer. I like sitting quietly with myself, reading, thinking, wandering about, doing very little, and somehow considering it a productive use of an afternoon, but I am not entirely made for solitude either, there is an equal and opposite part of me that wants to go beyond the familiar, to see what is waiting just beyond the little borders I have drawn around my life. I

I love evenings especially, sometimes I step outside simply because the sun is going down, and I feel that one ought to have the decency to witness it. I love those ridiculous skies where orange begins bleeding into purple and everything looks briefly more beautiful than it has any right to be. I love the first sip of tea in the morning, the sound of leaves moving in the wind, the gradual dimming of a day into dusk. I like gardens and parks, and the rather miraculous fact that one can walk among trees for an hour and come back feeling as though something inside one's head has been quietly rearranged.

I have always loved letters, too, though it has been some time since I last properly gave myself over to writing them. When I was younger, I wrote to my grandmother every day and dutifully posted the letters on my way to school. That I very rarely remembered the correct address, and even more rarely remembered a stamp, is beside the point.

I suppose what I am really trying to say is that, if you happen to be reading this, I would like to know you. Not because I have some elaborate checklist of the sort of person I hope to find, nor because I particularly care whether you happen to be interesting in the conventional sense, I am far more interested in the person underneath all that. The odd little habits, the things you know for no good reason, the memories you have never found a suitable occasion to tell anyone, the opinions you defend with considerably more conviction than they deserve.

There is something rather wonderful about writing to someone you do not know, I don't know your name, I don't know what you ate today, whether you slept properly last night, what song has been stuck in your head, or whether your day has been glorious or thoroughly dreadful, perhaps your inbox has been multiplying like gremlins left too near water, perhaps you have spent the afternoon pretending to work while accomplishing absolutely nothing of consequence, perhaps you have had one of those quiet days where the refrigerator becomes strangely prominent because you have nothing else to listen to.

I think people who stop to read messages from complete strangers are probably a little strange themselves, and I mean that as the highest compliment. Perhaps you are a birdwatcher, perhaps you collect old books, perhaps you are one of those suspiciously competent people who can fold a fitted sheet without entering into a minor spiritual crisis. If so, I already admire you, I have attempted it, and remain convinced the thing was designed by someone with a personal grievance against humanity.

Perhaps you laugh too loudly, perhaps you think too much, perhaps you are quiet and observant, and notice things everyone else walks past, perhaps you have passionately held opinions about breakfast foods. Cookies count, incidentally, I will defend this position before any reasonable tribunal.

As for me, I am kind, curious, occasionally ridiculous, easily distracted by an interesting thought, and rather fond of people who have something peculiar about them. I am probably not nearly as funny as I have just suggested, but I am willing to make the attempt, which ought to count for something.

Anyway, I shall spare you the remaining 96 pages of my unsolicited autobiography for now. If this sounds like your sort of nonsense, do come and say hello, I’d genuinely love to hear from you!

P.S Also, the little furry creature is called Oren, and he sends his warmest regards!

22M, (ENTJ) college student in Milwaukee. Latino, 5’7 if that matters lol. Pretty outgoing, hit the gym regularly, love traveling, going out, music, and meeting new people. Big into motorsports, especially F1, and I game here and there when I have some downtime.
I’m usually down for a spontaneous night out just as much as a chill night in. I like people who can hold a conversation, have a sense of humor, and don’t take themselves too seriously.
Looking for anyone around my age (18–25) to talk to, flirt a little, maybe exchange snaps, and see where the vibe goes. Doesn’t matter where you’re from, although bonus points if you’re nearby.
Not looking for anything too serious, just good conversation, some banter, and a little chemistry.
Shoot me a message with your age and where you’re from :)

1. I'm INT, mostly introverted but flex when i need to, especially for work.
   
2. I have a total of 13 half-siblings, step-siblings and sibling-siblings.
   
3. l've traveled to 17 different countries.
   
4. I once saved a stranger from getting kidnapped. She was being forced into a car in a parking lot and I intervened. (Please be careful when walking alone).
   
5. I've never been to jail but I had 5 speeding tickets last year.
   
6. I graduated from college 5 times (and i've flunked out twice).
   
7. I published a total of 19 articles and books so far.
   
8. I've been married once and divorced once (and don't want to ever get divorced again, so if we get married please lets do it for keeps).
   
9. I appeared on international television, twice.
   
10. I'm 5'9”, weigh 175 pounds and gained 15 pounds during the pandemic but never lost it.
    
11. I earned 400K last year (but paid 150K in taxes).
    
12. I've been dumped 4 times in my life, twice by text by the same person), once in person and once on the phone.
    
13. I've never done any drugs, but I have to admit i'm addicted to coffee.
    
14. I've been single for 5 years and would like to settle down soon.
    
15. I have synethesia.
    
16. I'm kind of very superstitious, I realize the irony given that I'm a mathematician.
    
17. I have a high drive in lots of contexts including volunteering, learning, teaching, career, self improvement and romance.
    
18. I circumnavigated the earth twice (2022 and 2026).
    
19. I've been fired twice in my life (once on my day off).
    
20. If you've read this far, message me let's chat and get to know each other. Tell me something about you.

I've been kinda on and off on meeting people and I'm in a very off moment of my life where I'd like to turn it on now.

I'm looking for someone interesting and I'd like to share each others' hobbies and likes.

I have a personal philosophy: Hobbies needn't be announced to find someone similar, I could always learn a new one and talk about it.

So if anyone interested, They are welcomed

hey so i dont have much expectations but why not?

so a lil about me is that i am 20, i am a very passionate and dedicated guy, some of my passions lie in technology, nature, environment and nature, which naturally leads to me hoping and preparing to build my career in green tech, or conservation tech

other than this i love to cook, eat, walk, listen to music, watching movies, watching web series, scorlling through instagram reels, or one of my biggest addiction being watching hell's kitchen or kitchen nightmares while eating anything lmaoo

i am quite a fun and helping person as people around me say at the very least, and romantically i am a yearner and a very very chalant guy, i will be head over heels for my girl being the guy that pisses her off and then treats her like a queen and then ragebaits her back, words of affirmations, reassurance, physical touch, acts of services all these are mu love language, i think this is a good intro, if you think we can vibe i would for you to reach out!!!, lets talk and see if we match

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• Top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto, (I have a top 10).

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to tell me your favourite anime or colour.

😂low expectations 😂 but why not?

Open to chat and see where conversation goes, open to friendship not just dating (in fact friends to lovers preferred over rushing )

Would like someone from nyc but open to long distance

Not a freaky person, so if your goal is something sexual, please don’t message. Looking for emotional connection before anything else.

🤓 I don’t wanna make a long post 😳 so just message and ask me anything

ChatGPT says my top matches are : ISFJ, ESFJ, INFJ, and ISTJ 👀🫣

Also, yeah I can be dry and boring 😂😂 I know a lot of people on here hate that, if that’s you. This can be your disclaimer.

Appearance: 5’3 Hispanic overweight

Hobbies: breathing

💃💃💃

A little about me: I’m pretty easygoing, affectionate, and I love having conversations where we can joke around but also talk about pretty much anything.

I’m really into football and skiing, and I spend some of my free time watching movies, anime and playing games. I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely connect with rather than just having a short conversation that disappears after a day or two. I value honesty, communication, affection, and being able to feel comfortable around each other. I’m open to seeing where things naturally go, whether that starts with chatting online and eventually becomes something more.

If you think we might get along, feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying hi. I’m also 182cm tall, 70kg with dark eyes, dark hair and white skin

i don't know how to make a dating post but tbh i am looking for a genuine and serious partner, I am looking for a partner who will support me while I'm working hard. I don't need that partner someone who comes into my life only after I have built my legacy.

27 from Tanzania, | 5’5 feet | Soft, chubby and occasionally dramatic.

I’m a Hairstylist working from home,crochet girl , experimental chef and a mother of two tiny humans who think I’m their personal assistant.

Looking for a man between 30-42years old,who communicates, knows what he wants, and doesn’t disappear like he’s been recruited by the CIA. 🕵🏽‍♂️
I’m dating for something real, not to collect pen pals from different time zones.

I love God, good laughs, thoughtful gestures, and men whose actions don’t need subtitles.
willing to relocate for the right man.

Come with intentions, not confusion. I already have enough tabs open in my brain.

i’ll cut to the chase. i’m ovulating rn. being an entp, that means im in the mood to flirt anonymously on the internet :)

if you make it worth my while, i’ll make it worth yours. dm me if you think you’re up for the challenge.

ages 22-35 preferred. all genders welcome

bonus points for being smart

Hey! I’m a 25-year-old guy from Ireland hoping to meet someone I can really connect with.

I’m a bit introverted, but I love getting to know someone and having those conversations where you look up and realise you’ve been talking for hours. I’m into football/soccer, movies, psychology, traveling and I enjoy hearing about the things other people are passionate about too.

I’d love to find someone kind and affectionate who I can laugh with, talk about absolutely anything with, and share the little everyday moments with.

Something that starts with a nice conversation and hopefully grows into something meaningful.

If you think we might get along, I’d love to hear from you! 😊

I'm 34, an INTJ, and based in Europe. I'm looking for someone to get to know online, through messages and calls, and see where it goes.

I like depth. Big ideas, odd opinions, the things you think about at 2am. I'm the kind of person who remembers what you said three weeks ago and brings it up at the right moment. I notice patterns, habits and small details, and I'm happy to put that attention on one person.

I'm also a bit of a planner and naturally take the lead. In a relationship that tends to show up as structure: check-ins, routines, little challenges I set for you, and a fair amount of teasing. If it gets spicier over time, I'm very much open to that, and I'll make sure we're both comfortable and talk openly about what each of us wants first.

I value effort and reciprocity. I'll show up consistently, and I'd like someone who does the same instead of replying once a week.

Women only. Tell me your type, what you're into, and what a good conversation looks like to you. Bonus points if you can tell me why you'd argue with me about something.

The entire time I would be confident and relaxed and even encourage you to grab some tea to calm yourself down while I handle the snake.

Then once you are safely out of the room , I shall commence my screaming! 

Now that I grabbed your attention , Hello there!

I guess the only way to describe me is being a fun golden retriever energy with you while we constantly try new adventures together ! ( like us wearing fancy suits and reviewing every taco stand in town or us going down every street to find that cute arts and crafts store that sells the bracelet you always wanted to fit with your outfit! )

Buuuttt, I am also constantly ambitious ( ever since childhood where I was featured in the newspapers for winning the best student award ) and would be the guy to work without retiring, constantly building new businesses or trying new side projects
Professionally wise, I work for a Global organisation, helping students from across the world become entrepreneur.

I grew up most of my life in the Middle East and am currently in South India, helping my parents set up a small ice cream shop. But now I am ready to move out and settle somewhere else, depending on my partner of course!
I speak a bit of French, Spanish, German and Arabic, but I am fluent in caveman grunts ( Me like pizza, Jane like too ? ) 

Physically I like to stay fit and go to the gym ( can lift about 100+ kgs ) while also playing sports and going for long walks. I don’t want to be just the stereotypical gym bro and would love to learn tango and Pilates as well with you! I hope you also love playing sports or being active too.

Never had a relationship too, because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my terms before being with someone. Because How can I be happy with someone, if I am not happy with myself first ? Unfortunately that took waayyyy longer than I expected , but I feel I am more mature and emotionally ready for finding that one partner where we can cook together, explore the world , build a business empire and pet every stray dog we come across!

I love learning, reading and being curious about the world ( everything from art to psychology to quantum mechanics to aunty politics ). I would learn everything about your field and find the right inside jokes for it too haha

I am mostly a warm empathetic guy who is like a Hawaiian beach surfer 80% of the time but when things get serious, I know how to lock in and take charge long enough to stabilise the situation before going back to playing around ( like a mix of warm competence who can calmly solve things but while making jokes the whole time lol )

For me, I believe in acts of service, taking the extra effort to surprise you and know how to deescalate situations. We would never fight as I would always suggest we grab a cheesecake and discuss the problem instead of fighting with my partner. 

I want to be your rock during hard days, help you grow professionally, tease you whenever you act cocky, flirt with you during zoom calls, have long talks till dawn and be cheesy romantic whenever it starts raining and pull you to the terrace while we slow dance. ( and get sick together the next day lmao )

We would actually love grocery shopping together because we would do silly games together like pretending we are spies for the perfect orange lol

Mostly an introvert who dislikes loud crowds and would rather sit quietly in the room with you while we read books on the same sofa with soft classical music playing ( every hour I would break the silence only to ask if you would like another cup of tea )

Hello everyone!

Im looking for someone who would be down to be eachother’s person. Im looking for the kind of dynamic where we would tell eachother about our lives, be there for eachother when things get tough or we’re faces with an inconvenience in our lives, while also sharing the mundane stuff with some fun and flirty conversations as well!

Im tall (6ft3), dark haired with dark features and fit as i workout regularly.

For my interests they go from playing chess, watching anime, reading/watching content about philosophy and astronomy, listening/making music, lifting, as well as watching football (or soccer if u call it that lmao)

Looking forward to hear from you, DM’s are open :)

35 y/o guy with a cute smile (have been told so) with a career in tech ( but not a tech bro ), a calm presence with a life that has been a wild adventure of extremes, I thrive on intellectual chaos. I like to read, anything everything from systems theory to modern french history, particularly clean energy and environment (it’s one of my passion). After taking a break from dating, I am giving it a one more shot, a last ditch effort before AI makes online dating extremely noisy.

What I’m Looking For:

A childfree, progressive partner ( how we define progressive might vary ) who sees life as a playground of possibilities, not a checklist. Someone unapologetically herself, sexually liberated, intellectually fearless, and allergic to societal scripts. Let’s skip the small talk and dissect the big questions: How do we live ethically in a burning world? Can love exist without ownership?

Why We Might Click:

• Staunchly Childfree : I don’t want kids (ever), both for personal freedom and because bringing new life into an overburdened world feels tragically naive. Let’s channel that energy into activism, art, or adventure instead.
• You crave depth : My attachment style is securely rooted. I’m here for mutual growth, not games. Whether we’re debating moral gray zones or testing new boundaries in the bedroom, I value curiosity over judgment.
• You’re a shapeshifter : Artist, scientist, activist, hedonist.... you refuse to be boxed in. Bonus if you’ve got stories from living unconventionally or a passion project that keeps you up at night.
• You laugh easily : My humor leans dry, my vibe is warm, and I’ll absolutely lean into the absurdity of dating via Reddit posts

The Vibe: Imagine slow mornings with coffee and conversations that feel endless, weekends volunteering or getting lost in a neon-lit bar, maybe just a cafe or beach? I’m driven but not ruthless, my version of “Machiavellian” is designing a life that’s sustainable, joyful, and defiantly ours. Let’s be catalysts, not conformists.( I don't have any societal morality )

TL;DR: Childfree, progressive, experimental and insatiably curious?

Edit : Have been Ethically non monogamous for years with previous partner and currently single, don’t mind the lifestyle. Also bisexual if its not explicit

I am non binary trans masc, I am 23 years old and 150 cm tall, I am Spanish but I am open to having a relationship with someone from Europe if he intends to make an effort to create a path together.I like guys and non-binary people. I'm attracted to people with darker skin tones, although I'm open to anything. I'm looking for someone faithful and loyal who wants to build a slow, settled relationship. I'm creative, I like tattooing, drawing, crafts, sports, nature, animals.. If you're interested talk to me:)

Disclaimer: I am only looking for people local to areas around Seattle/Everett/Bellevue!

I am a curvy INFJ lady on a pilgrimage to finding a new social group and a relationship! I figured I'd give it a shot here.

A little bit about me:

I recently moved from San Diego and am now a resident enrichment coordinator/manager at a memory care community where I am working to better the lives of people who will never truly remember me! It's all fine an dandy, we have a great time regardless. In my free time, mostly Fridays and Saturdays, I'd love to find someone to game, voice, and commit shenanigans in the city with. I have two degrees in Psychology and Communication, and am debt-free, moisturized, and in my lane, existing! I own a senior cat and he continues to defy death at the ripe age of eighteen. I do not drink, smoke, do drugs or party much! I am like a little decrepit old hag trapped in the body of a young woman, slaving over a hot stove (cast iron only.) I am on the expensive zepbound, so I can't eat as much as I used to!

Values:

Time, Kindness, stability, structure, mindfulness, empathy, ambition, communication and of course, humor~

What I am looking for:

I love to voice on Discord! It's so important to have great verbal chemistry. I'm hoping to meet someone who loves to talk as much as they enjoy sitting in silence doing their own thing, sharing each other's company when we're just flat out exhausted. Ideally, we can roleplay, game, go out on the town, and maybe do a little bit of movie watching too! I love to watch period dramas, animes, horror movies and comedies alike. I'm not necessarily looking to rush into anything, as I'd rather meet someone and see where things lead. My ideal life is living right outside my small town in the woodlands, in a two bed two bath house with wifi and enough ice water / freeze dried mangoes to satiate me. Boring is sometimes good in the realm of predictability and structure.

Age wise, someone between the ages of 28-38 is ideal, past their college years, and looking to build a life of comedically predictable bliss!

Superficially, I'm really into someone who could tower over me and defend my pizza takeout from the downtown midnight scallywags. I have a huge weakness for a good sense of business functional fashion!

Deal Breakers:

Not enough time to invest, anger issues/yelling of any sort, smoking, drinking to cope (social okay), drugs, lack of communication, financial irresponsibility, polygamy, dishonesty, racism, overly religious, I do not wish to have kids.

Games:

No Rest for the Wicked, Elden Ring Seamless Coop, Second Life, Stardew Valley, Witcher 3, Guild Wars 2, Warframe, Assassin's Creed, Peak, Divinity OS2, Baldur's Gate, Valheim, and much more!

Hobbies:

Roleplaying (one person only), Going to carnivals, rock hounding, (I want to hike but don't yet.), tons of games, writing my own lore/world, exploration, travel (if I can afford it), design, cooking (lots of different cultures!), volunteering, creating a cozy existence, and more to uncover!

There's something funny about writing to someone you haven't met. I don't know your name, what your laugh sounds like, or whether you're the type to steal food from someone else's plate. But here I am, curious about you already.

A little about me: I'm 26, from Mumbai. I work in a managerial role, study yoga on the side, and have a habit of getting lost in random questions about life, people, and the universe.

I'm close to my family, generally calm, and I enjoy understanding people. Although, fair warning, once I'm comfortable, the teasing begins. You might regret encouraging me. 😂

I wonder what you're like when nobody's watching. Whether you sing while cooking, get excited over tiny things, or have a completely ridiculous sense of humour that only a few people know about.

I'd like something genuine and long-term. The kind where we can be silly together, talk about difficult things without shutting each other out, and keep choosing each other as life changes.

And maybe somewhere along the way, we'll have our own little traditions, terrible inside jokes, and a favourite place to escape to when life gets overwhelming.

Anyway, I have a suspicion there's a rather interesting person reading this.

I'd like to meet her. :)

....it's all fun and games until you have to describe yourself.

Most people tell me I'm intelligent, give good advice, know what I want and logical. If you're into mbti, mine is INTJ and I've never been mistyped. However, I've done a lot of inner work and reflection and I've grown to seek more human connection that brings me resonance, laughter and value. The world is wide, and I wonder if I'll find a good friend here.

I did Biology for my undergrad and I like science. My drive is mostly to understand what the truth is at the center of all things. Currently, I'm planning to pursue my studies in a particular field. Part of it is to also start a new life elsewhere.

I've travelled to a lot of countries (guess the number).

I'm terrible at answering questions on favourites because it's so final and hierarchical. So hobbies..I try to get a good sleep at night, catch the sunrise to align my circadian rhythm, meditate, stretch and do some reflection. I like watching the skies and do a bit of gardening or reading a book while getting my vitamin D (I am totally grossed out by worms though. I'd freeze and panic if I see one). I play my piano sometimes, I have 2 cats, I love puzzles, crosswords, jigsaw, board games etc. I tend to cook everyday, not because I like it, but because I'd be craving something and cooking is easy to me, and I do it fast. Ironically, and paradox is perhaps my middle name, I absolutely despise routine with a passion. I mostly do things because I think they're 'right' so I have to do it.

I do listen to music (mostly when I work out) and watch movies/tv shows sometimes, but I find them to be less interesting these days. Oversupply, same slob. I hardly finish whatever I watch, and I don't have Netflix because it doesn't interest me. I find too much screentime to be exhausting, so it's not my main thing but rather a way to spend quality time with someone. I don't play games, but that's only because I get competitive sometimes (healthily) and I know I'd obsess over it and waste a lot of my time until I finish it. So I just don't start. But I'll play scrabble, chess or quick games with you.

What I value most is freedom. I hate being told what to do and when to do it which is why I avoid a 9-5 job. I started a few small business on the side and since I work on my own and I like studying, it'd be good if I can talk to someone while doing that. I'm too inside my mind, my soul is probably half decomposing hence this post. I also started my own sports club several years ago and it currently has over 1k+ members (and like a true INTJ psychopath, I handle it all alone. Send help). I organize games for 30-40 players every week, and that's mostly my social outlet where I get to meet new people. I'm also picking up new hobbies like sketching and learning bachata. Getting into some spanish songs lately, so some recommendations would be great.

I probably sound serious here but I'm pretty unserious when I'm comfortable and relaxed. I like people who have depth, can handle any conversation and who naturally makes me laugh (I am in dire need of laughing more). I'd like to talk to people who are working on themselves: emotionally, intellectually, physically etc but also know how to be light, silly and fun. I crave depth and resonance. We either click or we don't. If you want to start a conversation, tell me about yourself, where you're from and we'll see if our personalities match :) Plus point if you're a healthy ENTP. I also do not want to talk to another NTJ as I've already mostly been living inside my head, and I'm familiar with the patterns. I'm open to talking to both men and women, including cool grandmas who have gotten their lives together that they're back to being a girl and the world is just a fun playground to them.

(This is actually my post on friend related subs. I actually prefer not to find romance on reddit, just looking for ENTPs to talk to since they're the only type that can stimulate my mind & playfulness equally).

Note: I am not looking for nsfw. I will chase you down to a hole, post your pictures on reddit and make sure your account gets banned if you try.

Ive realized the sort of relationship I want to create is so different from what is normal. When I try to connect with a normal girl it ends up just feeling off.

I feel too idealistic, my aspirations (internally/morally) just seem like being unrealistic to them. But to me they are very realistic, even exciting. I love growing, I love becoming my best self relationally.

I love becoming a better listener, putting my partner first isn't cheesy or weird.. it's the bare minimum. I love to serve, to listen, to hold.

And to me a relationship is only real if I feel the same love for love from my partner too. I love giving 200%. And don't want to feel alone with that or feel it's unreciprocated or too weird.

To my future wife: "I will give my all so your tears will no longer fall. Down. Down on sorrow's stone."

And, "Lift your spirit now we shall be together soon!"

Anyways lol. I'm also very deeply connected to my inner world. I'm a conscious creator/manifestor. I have a Christian background although I don't officially label myself religious (more spiritual).

Personality: Calm, kind, gentle, fun hearted, lots of dumb lol's. Philosophical.

I don't care if my Special One is financially thriving, or if they have their earthly life fully sorted out. Those sorts of things are less important to me. What I care for is that you have a deep inner life, know how to care for another person truly, have a kind heart (and love growing!) and are deeply emotionally available.

- I was born in Africa, but live in Canada now.

Fairly tall. Open to long distance if there's intentionality on both ends. Looking to get to know you for the purpose of marriage, as I'm not looking for casual.