r/chat • • 3h ago

Chat 💬 29F - boring day at the office! Let’s chat!

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Another boring day ahead of me. Let’s keep each other occupied!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 👋🙂 Hey there!

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Is there any lost soul tonight who isn't looking for anything specific, just some company?

I'm 36F... I love reading and I'm always down to try something new—whether it's a new music genre, food, or activity. But tonight I'm just in the mood for some casual chat about whatever we find interesting...


r/chat • • 4h ago

Friends 👥 31/F I'm still here to find someone special! I'm not Interested In conversations with people who are bored or horny! I'm here to find emotionally mature & friendless Introverts who value respect & honesty! I want my loneliness to come to an end 😔 I'm Interested In daily conversations

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(Please, read this post If you want to send me a message)

Yes... I'm still here and I'm still trying to find someone... That's all I want 😔 Finding a bestie Is my dream... I would love to finally say "Goodbye" to my loneliness and start smiling, again. Not with someone random, but with someone who wants what I want...

(I'm a REAL PERSON! Bots are taking over Reddit but I'm not one of them so don't accuse me of being someone/something I'm not)

I want you to read everything because my expectations aren't the same as other people's expectations. I also want you to know what to expect because even though we're all here to spend time with others, not everyone needs new friends. Some people want to find someone to play games with & It's just an example. 👇🏻

(This post Is for people who live In Europe because I would love to meet my new friends In real life, In the future)

I made this account In 2021 and even though I'm really active on Reddit, I can't make new friends... Not everyone on Reddit Is toxic or rude but there's ALWAYS something missing because I don't feel any emotional connection... I would love to change my life & finally wake up excited to text someone I really, really like 🙁 But... Life Isn't easy and I'm not sure If there's still a chance for me to find someone with exactly the same expectations as mine, someone who wants to meet someone new...

• I'm DEFINITELY NOT Interested In small talk! I had to use capital letters because I don't like low-effort messages and I don't even want to read them. Repetitive questions like "How are you?", "What are you up to?" or "What are your plans for the weekend?" aren't enough to start a conversation with me.. Don't get me wrong - Questions like these can be an Interesting addition to conversations about something else, but whenever people ask me the three most common questions In the world - my answer's the same because my life Is quite monotonous and I don't really know what people expect to hear 🙁 I also don't like abbreviations. Abbreviations are shortened forms of words or phrases. Why? I just don't like them because I see no reason to use shortened forms of words that are already short enough, you know? Abbreviations are common among minors and bored adults but I'm neither a minor, nor a bored adult. I want to see emotional maturity, warmth and kindness In conversations with others.

• I don't need to see your list of hobbies to know If you're someone I would get along with! You can tell me what you're Interested In but.. Believe It or not - I'm not like others and even If you're Interested In something I'm not - we can still be friends! What matters to me Is what you're like (If you're honest, talkative, kind, understanding and If your outlook on life Is similar to mine)

• I don't want to talk to minors and people way older than me. Why? I don't want to talk to minors because I'm an adult & I don't want to talk to anyone over fifty for example. Emotional maturity doesn't necessarily come with age so you can send me a message even If you're 20 (It's just an example) but please, don't contact me If you want to remind me that I'm older than you. I want you to feel comfortable & I want to feel comfortable myself. When I read messages like "Hi, I'm younger but I hope you don't mind" I always say to myself "If my age bothers you, you should've contacted someone else" I absolutely don't mind talking to people younger than me If they know how to communicate with others 🌸

• PLEASE, Don't use AI to talk to me! I Can't stand AI generated messages! If I wanted to read AI generated messages, I wouldn't be here! I read AI generated messages and comments all the time and I'm sick of It!

• I don't want to get any messages from people whose accounts are NSFW! Please, respect my decision! It's none of my business If you're here to find someone to flirt with or If you're an Internet exhibitionist but I don't want to see you with no clothes on - If you want to be my friend & I don't want to know what you want to do with other women In bed. If you are on Reddit to flirt with others, be on Reddit to flirt with others but... don't make an alternative account to hide who you really are just to send me a message. Pretending to be someone you're not - Isn't good for anyone

• I'm not a fan of sarcasm! I do - have a sense of humor but I'm not someone who makes fun of everyone and everything... Jokes about disabilities, death, religion or someone's financial status - are unacceptable to me!

• I also want to meet people who don't mind listening to negative stories and sharing them with others. My life's not easy so If you want to be In my life, you should be prepared for a realistic or even pessimistic outlook on life. I'm definitely not an optimist and I know I wouldn't get along with optimistic people who always tell others "Just believe In yourself and everything's gonna be OK" or something. We don't always get what we want & and It's completely normal to lose hope "for a better tomorrow" after many failed attempts. Not everything's as easy as It seems to be so If all you want to say to someone who needs emotional support Is "Don't complain" or "Find a therapist" Please.. don't send me a message. Not all sad people need therapists and let's be honest - Would a therapist replace a true friend? Absolutely not! Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on! I also don't mind listening to sad stories (even If they're repetitive) because I know what It's like when no one wants to listen to you...

• I would love to meet people who also don't have anyone, you know? There's absolutely nothing wrong with having friends and not being single but I'm single and I don't have anyone special In my life... It's just easier for me to get along with others If there's some common ground. I just feel better talking to people who know what It's like to be completely alone & let's be honest - People who have friends or partners, have less time for others...(which Is completely understandable) and I? I don't want to feel like an option, again. I'm not here to meet as many people as possible because I choose quality over quantity 🌸

• If your comment history Is full of comments "If you want to talk, hit me up" don't send me a message. I don't want to be rude but If It doesn't make any difference to you who you want to chat with - I'm definitely not for you. I want you to be my friend because of who I am! (If after reading my post you think you'd get along with me) I don't need emotional support from someone who doesn't even want to read my post.

• I want to talk to people who love and use emojis 🤭😊 Why? Emojis help us express our emotions even If others can't see our faces. Two emojis "😊" and "😔" are completely enough. You're probably surprised but.. text messages without emojis are really emotionless... I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea" as it sounds dismissively! First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even In a text message

Ps. I don't like kids and I don't want to ever become a parent. I just thought everyone should know that just In case. I don't want any unpleasant conversations with anyone. Not everyone wants to be friends with people who don't want kids so.. It's better to be honest. 🌸

Ps.2 I don't reply to messages I'm not Interested In even If they're long! I'm not on Reddit to pretend anything and I'm not here to be everyone's best friend. Some people lie & make empty promises to get attention. I? I'm quite selective because I know what I want.

Ps.3 I admire sensitive people who are not ashamed of crying In front of others! Crying Is not a weakness! It's not a weakness even If you're a guy 🧡

Please, If you want to talk send me a private message.


r/chat • • 4h ago

Friends 👥 23f latina

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Hey, i’m a 23 year old latina, i am looking to make new friends! i would love to have a daily chat and someone to have a connection with! i can talk about any topic, im an extrovert and love meeting new people. 😊


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 33F long term chat?

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Heya I’m Bee from the UK, love having a good chat so I try pretty hard to not just go with the usual “hey how are you?” Let’s banter or talk about life or trade dumb jokes. There’s definitely at least 3 people in my life who think I’m funny. I love rock, pop punk, indie. I play video games, board games and D&D. I do yoga and I want to get back into running. I work in mental health and love my job. How’s your Tuesday been?


r/chat • • 50m ago

Friends 👥 31M An Arab from the Middle East looking for friends

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I'm a 31 years old Arab from the Middle East, hoping to make friends

I'm into a wide range of music genres, really into tech stuff, and I love anime. Some of my favorites include Bleach, Hunter x Hunter, Jujutsu Kaisen, and the list goes on. I sometimes read manga and manhwa too.

When it comes to shows I like Breaking Bad, Ted Lasso, How to Get Away with Murder, and Suits. I'm also into gaming (we could play co-op games!), coding, and reading.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to message!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 Kinda bored anyone up for a Chat!!!!

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Anyone up for a chat. Been a very chill few months after a hectic intern season. Just here to make some new friends online 🙂


r/chat • • 2h ago

Chat 💬 30F | Merhaba, Shwaya Shy, Shwaya Surprise (A little shy, a little surprise.) Thanks

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Hello / Salam! 🌙🤍

I’m a calm, friendly, shy introvert who loves reading, video games, long YouTube videos, rom-coms movies, and self-development. I try to stay positive, protect my peace, and believe that most things in life can be figured out with the right mindset. (Or maybe I’m just delusional which I'm not😂)

Why am I here?
Hoping to find that connection where strangers become friends and suddenly you’re talking for hours like you’ve known each other forever. No drama, no pretending, just genuine conversations and good vibes. 🌿

Message me with your age, gender, and location. Tell me about yourself, say hi, or make me laugh.

Sometimes a simple “hi” works, and sometimes a whole essay can’t create a spark. Chemistry is weird. 💀

Anyway, let’s chat, human! 🤝😂


r/chat • • 2h ago

Friends 👥 25M - Looking for long-term Friends

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I'm Finnish and currently studying in an university of applied sciences. My biggest hobbies are gaming, boxing and ballroom dancing. Currently I am on sick leave though.

Some other interests: therapy, gym, practicing guitar and drawing.

Also know a lot about mental health xD I struggle with depression and anxiety.

Recently have played some horror games and Dead by Daylight. Even though anhedonia is kicking my ass. Feel free to dm :D


r/chat • • 3m ago

Friends 👥 16yo trans girl from the UK

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pls be from europe or UK too, I dont want a massive timezone difference.

my interests:

I like to cook and bake (wouldn't say im the best cook/baker but im certainly alright at it)

I play roblox, minecraft, subnautica 2 and brawlstars

I like astronomy (mostly learning about planets/exoplanets)

I love walks, anywhere really, forests, beaches, cities but also especially at night.

I LOVE horror movies (and games), sometimes ill watch anime, scifi or comedy

Love thrifting and finding cute new clothes!!

Listening to music, my fav artist is lil peep

Got 2 cats and 1 dog, although, i've always wanted a bunny

Like listening to true crime


r/chat • • 15m ago

Chat 💬 20NB Haili, I need more friends and people to chat with TwT

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Haili, I'm Silver, I'm a huge nerd, I love plenty of anime, Videos games, tt games, witchy stuffy, and many more. I respond pretty quickly and my dms are always open for whatever you guys wanna chat about! All are welcome ofecc, everyone deserves some comfort and if I can give that then I'm glad! O0


r/chat • • 16m ago

Chat 💬 M 21 let’s chat yall im bored

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r/chat • • 32m ago

Chat 💬 24 M looking for friends

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I am 24 years old . I work as a research assistant at a university, specializing in in silico drug design. I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi though I prefer sci-fi and I watch movies and series in these genres. I also like reading comics and listening to jazz and classical music. I have a talent for writing (I’ve written a novel) and I can draw (modern art).

I prefer someone in my same time zone(GTM+3).

anyone who want to talk DM me.


r/chat • • 44m ago

Chat 💬 26 F | Distract me from work

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Please don’t be weird, I’m married and also trans. I’m interested to hear about your hobbies!

I play guitar, D&D, and some video games (I took off work for GTA lol) I also write poetry and song lyrics!


r/chat • • 48m ago

Chat 💬 40/M - Boring Day … Help Me Stay Sane

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Hey there, I’m Mike 40 and from Florida. Would love someone to chat with throughout my day (and beyond?). I’m a married, work from home dad who travels a lot.

Love to talk about all sorts of things and happy to do the 40 questions as we get to know each other or just vibe and shoot the ****

Please shoot me your name, age and location in your first message. Happy/prefer to exchange pics at some point when it feels natural and always willing to take the chat to another platform if we’re getting along.


r/chat • • 51m ago

Chat 💬 30M California - I’m here for the zip line

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Hey everyone, hope you’re all having a decent morning. 30M here looking to chat the day away! Work’s a bit slow so I have some time to kill while I’m doing little tasks.
About me: I love working out. Lifting weights and MMA are my main hobbies, but I dabble in hiking and if I’m hating myself, I’ll go for a run lol.

I also LOVE food. Probably why I like going to the gym haha, to make room for food. I am particularly weak at the knees for breakfast foods, and will NEVER say no to dessert ‼️. Anything chocolate is my preference (except coconut. Looking at you, almond joys and mounds bars. Stay away from me!)

I also love playing video games and watching comedies like Superbad, Step Brothers, White Chicks lmao. If any of this rings with you, hit me up!


r/chat • • 59m ago

Chat 💬 Do you like tacos? Want to taco ‘bout it?

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Hi!

I'm just a fairly normal 58M in Denver. I'm having a quiet day and would love to make a friend.

I like a lot of sports, music, literature, and politics.

I love to play pickleball and tell dad jokes, and I'm an Oxford comma enthusiast.

Hope to hear from you!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Friends 👥 27M looking for chill chats and long term friends

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Heya 27 M from the Uk, looking for chills chats and hoping to make long term friends!

I’m into the usual gaming and anime etc, but also enjoy building Gunpla and recently got back into 40K mini building but early days on that!

I love traveling (mainly to Japan!) and currently planning my 5th trip there for next year!

I also enjoy taking walks, and I’ve been on a fitness journey since last year. Recently took up running again in June, focusing on my 5K with a current PB of 28:15. Hoping to get that down even lower before the years out!

Don’t need to share all interests, all I ask is more than a “hey” or one word replies! Love a good engaging chat!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Discord 25 british guy late night chat

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Would anyone like a late night chat whilst in bed? We could text, send voice notes or call whatever you prefer!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 M35 South England. Looking for chilled out chats

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Hey, just looking for chilled chats. I’m into sport, movies, documentaries and walks. I’m easy going and very open in conversation, check my profile out. If you fancy a chat drop me a message. Please be 18+


r/chat • • 1h ago

Friends 👥 36M looking to chat with anyone.

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Hey! I'm a 36-year-old guy who enjoys connecting with people from all walks of life. Whether you're looking for a casual chat, a new friend, or just someone to share interests with, feel free to reach out.

I have a few unusual hobbies, a small collection of pets, and a love for music and tattoos. I'm always happy to talk about hobbies, life, random interests, or whatever happens to come up.

If that sounds interesting, send me a message!


r/chat • • 1h ago

Chat 💬 27m firefighter looking for chats

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Hey there!

I’m Sam, 27m firefighter from the Midwest US. I’m pretty laid back and easy going, just looking to meet some new people to chat with and get to know.

I’m open minded and love to learn about new things or your hobbies. I like to read, watch shows (currently watching Survivor and thinking of rewatching Succession!), bike, camp, sports, exercise, and see friends and family.

Tell me a fun fact, favorite hobby, deep secret, or anything else and I’d love to talk with you about it!

Sam


r/chat • • 5h ago

Chat 💬 26F, Who Am I? I Am a Joke, I Guess

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“Please introduce yourself.”

Probably one of the hardest questions during interviews. It’s easy to say, “I’m blah blah, 26, from somewhere in the world,” then list your achievements, skills, and experiences. Funny how that generic answer is already programmed in my head.

But if I ask myself who I really am, the answer gets a little harder. I’m a mess, but I’m a good daughter. Or at least, I’m trying to be. Am I a good person? I’d like to think so. Do I get angry? I do. Am I reasonable? Most of the time, probably not. I’m just one person among billions, trying to survive one day at a time.

Sometimes I wonder how everyone else is doing too. Did someone celebrate something today? Get a promotion? Or maybe simply enjoy their favorite food after a long day. Some people are at the top of the world, while others are barely holding on. We rarely know which is which. So, I guess, let’s be kind. Be the person we’d want to meet on a difficult day.

Anyway, that’s me. A 26 year old still figuring things out.

Nice to meet you.


r/chat • • 5h ago

Friends 👥 23F COME BE MY FOREVER BESTIE

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First things first, this is a ghost-free zone. I know its Halloween/spooky season, but i stand on business. No ghosting.

About me: I love to travel. I would like to travel more. But alas, I lack the funds to do so.

I hate cleaning. I dont enjoy it, im not particularly good at it either. BUT, I dig deep and will lock-in and clean when necessary.

I graduated university. First generation students rise up. I do have a degree. Am I using it? Ehh, thats debatable. But I do have a job. Bravo ilya.

Hmmm? I'm looking for someone committed to being my friend. And someone who can take a joke and banter with me. That is very important.

21+ ONLY. Please send a description of yourself. Thanks!


r/chat • • 2h ago

Chat 💬 36 m usa

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Hello folks looking for a friend who actually enjoys chatting (preferably a female). It may be long tern it shirt term depending on the vibe.

My hobbies include:

Traveling

Gym

Cooking

Meeting people from different cultures

Movies / shows

Building stuff

if you sell content please stay away.