Many people complain about not making friends on vrchat, and most of the time it's they have social anxiety. They are too shy they are a new user xyz. I'm a trusted user rank player with 4k hours in this game. while I do have some friends who play a lot of time, their schedules conflict with mine. they also would rather play other games or do other things than vrchat, which is fair and understandable. so I'm looking for more friends that do get on. I'm 30, so I tend to stay towards adult and age gated worlds and groups, but even in those places, I am struggling. at first, it was because I was a quiet, not very social person, but I took time working on myself for over 2 years. And now I can hold a decent conversation. I even find myself greeting people new times if there's not many people in a world or instance. I try to be friendly towards everyone, and so many times people treat me like the greeter at Walmart hey hi how are ya? anyways I'm here to get milk.
I dont wear goofy or meme avatars. I wear regular female avatars, and before you ask, yes, I am a man, but so are nearly 70% of the other female avatar users. Like im at my wits end I'm just trying to make friends I actively get on every night and talk to people but it always leads no where.