There's this girl (18F) in my church. She moved to the city for college so she's been at the church for a bit more than 2 1/2 months. She's super friendly and sweet and made herself well connected in the young adults group really fast. Her and I clicked really well, so we became really close in the past couple months. This is the first time I'm hearing her talk about a guy, so I was not prepared for the level of delusion. Love her though, she's awesome.

Also don't mind the instagram chat background. There's really isnt any context, we were just being silly.

EDIT SOMEONE HELPED ME BUT IDK HOW TO POST OR TAG

This still makes me laugh!

I posted a piece of this before, and the support helped ground me when I was struggling to process the reality of what happened.

These are some of the most vile, degrading messages sent to me by my ex mocking the death of my brother, wishing violence on my mother, and using relentless psychological abuse to break me down. The sexual comments are talking about my mum. This is something I don't think any understanding how difficult it is to feel okay but I've made progress. Hopefully all my anger and frustration will leave with it and it will be like she never existed

I’m sharing this not to stay stuck in the past, but as a final line in the sand. Tomorrow, every remnant and belonging of hers is being burned. From here on out, my focus is entirely on my own healing, rebuilding my peace, and leaving this poison behind for good

The title is just a joke, we are cool. He is kidding of course.

😭 people are insane lmaooo. I rejected him after this cuz that's wild behaviour

we had a lab report that we had to turn in today for my physics class. green guy had the procedure section (arguably the easiest) and messed up a bunch of it. he’s a bit of a slacker in the class so i guess we just assumed he had done his part and didn’t want any more to do with it.

me and purple person (red guy couldn’t access the full lab doc because we were using the free version of overleaf, but his section was fine) spent the entirety of sunday formatting it and in the process had to fix the entire procedure. needless to say we were a little annoyed but again figured that green guy was just done with it.

flash forward to today we submitted it in class and green guy read over it before (and did not say anything about the changed parts). tonight he texted that he didnt get any of the texts because it all went to spam.

what gets me is that red guy made the group chat and had green guy’s phone number from a previous lab they’d worked on…just a frustrating experience and i wish i had texted green guy sooner, lmao

edit: "sob" is the word version of the crying emoji and something i text a lot lmao. was not calling him a son of a bitch though i was definitely thinking it

i’m so upset. this was my dads funeral day
edit: we ARE broken up. I just didn’t wanna make this post all about us being broken up.

Before this conversation my stalker has been trying to contact me through my friends and in this instance my stalker went to my friends job about a month ago talking about me and trying to get information about me from them. My friend proceeded to listen to them and almost gave them information about my phone number. My stalker then texted my friend about me trying to get them to confirm or deny my phone number. My friend sent me screenshots of the messages but came at me in an accusatory manner about how I "lied" to my stalker about my phone number. I told my friend I don't owe my stalker honesty and they understood but the initial betrayal and distrust hurt me.

Cheated on me this time last year. Found out about it in December. Found out the next day i was pregnant. It has been a rough 10 months to say the least Are we dumb for even still trying and how would you respond ?

Like a year and a half into dating her. We be texting like this… and I a 30m now look back and see how dumb and under a spell I was. Just funny now, but yea we had a terrible breakup and she broke up wit me for another guy and came back. Then I found out 2 months later she had been monkey branching. Never again

Do other couples text like this too or am I the only dumbass?

Two friends lost my dog earlier this year and one of them joked about it to my face for months afterwards. Got ghosted by both of them when I confronted them and haven’t heard from the friend in the texts since. I have a different post from yesterday that goes into a bit more detail (also had an awful situation with a neighbour at the same time which they were pretty shitty about to)
Debating on whether to send them both a big “f you” text or just leave it be. Thoughts?

Yknow it’s not AS bad as I thought it was relooking at it but cringe still.

Went on two dates with this guy. Made it abhorrently clear that I was not dtf and that I was looking for a long term relationship with serious goals in mind. We met up twice and played some video games occasionally for a month when he ghosted.

He came back asking how I've been and if I was still interested. Obviously not after a year long ghost. Instead he asks if I'm interested in good sex. Honestly a shock comming from what I thought I knew about the guy.

So for context I kinda know the guy, I saw him at his job and said hi because I recognized him from snap (he is CONSTANTLY posting selfies). This was a year ago and he added me on this new account and we started talking. I was asking about his job bc he said he had a side hustle. I got busy bc I was selling my car so I had to clean it and deal with a bunch of other stuff and wasn’t on my phone. I’m a busy woman, I’m taking 20 credits (60 credit hours) and I work part time (15-20h a week), so I do not always have time to respond. It’s not personal, and anyone who knows me knows this. I take a few hours to reply to my parents, friends, significant others, etc. because I am ALWAYS doing something! And when I’m with my friends or family, like I was yesterday, I’m NOT on my phone. I engage in conversation like a normal person.

This man was so rude because I left him on delivered for a couple of hours. Not even a day. And when I explained myself (top video on the second screenshot) he was still hostile so I decided to match his energy with my voice note since I was walking to class and didn’t have time to type. At first I thought it was a bit but then he was still angry after I sent him a video explaining 😭😭

I (31F) am clear on my Tinder that I'm looking for FWB, and I do video calls to do vibe checks.

This guy and I did a video call last week and made plans for the weekend, then he texted me that he had to work and brought up next weekend instead. I'm down.

I shoot him a followup text aaaand... ghosted.

This is by no means the first time this has happened.

WTAF? All my life I'm told guys would do anything for sex. I'm here and making it literally as easy as humanly possible, and they can't even text me back???

For the record, I'm a perfectly average looking woman, and I do have a lot of success finding FWBs on the apps. Just so frustrated with the ones that don't work out.

EDIT: It's the next day and he responded enthusiastically 😂 Better late than never!

I feel depressed already

I left him and then he tried to match my best friend at the time when he trashed her our whole relationship. It's been 2 years and I still chuckle when it pops up as a memory