r/bruindating • • Sep 30 '24

WELCOME BACK! Please read these rules before posting.

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This sub is intended for Bruins to find dates and other romantic partners. It was created 4 years ago, but abandoned by its previous moderators, so I re-established it as a resource for the community.

  1. Please be respectful of all users. There is no need for judgment, snark or personal attacks.

  2. Be clear about who you are and what you are looking for. Specify your age, gender, etc. Talk about your hobbies and interests. The more detail you provide, the more likely you are to get quality responses.

  3. Once you have found your match, simply edit your post to say "no longer looking".

  4. Do not send messages that contain inappropriate content, foul language, or unsolicited nudes to any user. If you receive such messages, please inform the moderator.

  5. No low-effort posts. Talk about who you are, your hobbies or interests, and what you desire in a partner. Provide some insight into your life. Quality posts are more likely to get a response from someone who might be a good match for you. One-liners and spammy posts will be removed.

Happy dating and good luck with your search!


r/bruindating • • 1d ago

22 M4F - Looking for FWB, or just spending wholesome time driving around

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I’m looking for someone who’s open to meeting casually: whether that’s as an FWB and taking that more sexual route, or just wanting to cuddle and/or have someone to yap to and spend time with. DM me and we can work out the expectations and boundaries together! I’m also very yappative.

I have a car and would love to drive us around LA, and take you to a bucket list spot of yours! I’m 6’+, and gym everyday.


r/bruindating • • 1d ago

22 [M4F] – Looking for FWB or HU

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Hey! I’m 22M, Asian, 6’1”, and athletic. Just putting myself out here to see if anyone’s looking for something casual and fun.
I’m open to a FWB situation or a casual hookup, ideally with someone who’s chill, easygoing, and on the same page. Not looking for anything serious right now, but definitely down to get to know each other and see where things go

Feel free to DM me if you’re interested! Happy to exchange pics once we get talking.


r/bruindating • • 5d ago

21 M4F Looking for a long term relationship before graduation

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Hey! I’m a 4th year student, 5'11", and East Asian. I’m looking for a long term relationship. I love sports and eating out. I’m a top 5% Beli user, so I’d love to show you some of my favorite spots!

I’m not really into dating apps, but I’d love to meet someone before I graduate. I’d be happy to chat, exchange Instas, and go on a date to see how things go. I’ve seen a lot of posts looking for hookups or something casual, but I’m hoping to find a real connection. I tend to be more interested in dating other Asians, too. If you’re looking for something similar, hit me up!


r/bruindating • • 14d ago

21 M4F hookup/fwb?

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Hi! Just on here looking for something casual, I'm Asian, 5'5, and a huge nerd! I live on the hill, so making plans should be easy :) although I'd like something casual I'd also like it to be consistent, we can take it as slow or fast as you'd like, as long as we're both comfortable!!


r/bruindating • • 17d ago

22MFW - Hookup or FWB

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Hey everyone! I'm a 22 year old international student from Mexico 🇲🇽 I just moved in and have a dorm to myself for the until Wednesday. Looking to meet someone new or just have a casual hookup with someone sweet and kind. I'm 6'1 (if my conversion is correct) and have an athletic build. I play futbol, like to read, play guitar, go to the gym and cook. I'm an engineering major and would like to meet some people before this stressful year begins. Maybe l'll even learn more English from you! Reach out!


r/bruindating • • 18d ago

21 M4F hookup (and more?)

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Heya! Just as the title says, looking for a hookup and am open to ongoing/fwb. Above all, just wanna have fun together and make sure you're comfortable!

About me: 5ft9, fourth year psychobio major, and I live on the Hill. I like writing, watching movies, listening to music, all that good stuff lol. Hmu if you're interested!


r/bruindating • • 18d ago

Have office. Will host.

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Women 18+ only. Not interested in men.


r/bruindating • • 21d ago

25F4M

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Looking for a spooky fling fwb type


r/bruindating • • 26d ago

Rocker looking for his Delilah

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Any emo, goth girls on campus ?
22 m 4th year phy sci


r/bruindating • • 28d ago

M4F friends with benefits on the low

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Just looking for someone who’s down to be a little more then friends but of course respect ur privacy and keep it on the low. Why not have a little fun this quarter🤷‍♂️we can talk and get to know each other and see where it goes :) no preference at all as long as you cool lol


r/bruindating • • Sep 26 '26

25 looking for side play

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Looking to get spanked a little not trying to fuck


r/bruindating • • Sep 26 '26

26M looking for hook up or fwb ;)

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Nothing serious and kinda secretive lol
Females only haha


r/bruindating • • Sep 20 '26

22M4W International student

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Hey everyone! I'm a 22 year old international student from Mexico 🇲🇽 I just moved in and have a dorm to myself for the until Wednesday. Looking to meet someone new or just have a casual hookup with someone sweet and kind. I'm 6'1 (if my conversion is correct) and have an athletic build. I play futbol, like to read, play guitar, go to the gym and cook. I'm an engineering major and would like to meet some people before this stressful year begins. Maybe l'll even learn more English from you! Reach out!


r/bruindating • • Sep 12 '26

23 (M4F) ons or fwb

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Hey ya’ll, 23, staying in LA during holidays, if anyone wants to meet to have fun hmu. I’m 6’1, fit, athletic body. Open to anyone who’s down to have a good time. dm me and we can exchange pictures and meet up :)


r/bruindating • • Aug 10 '26

22 M4F

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tbh just looking for a friend! and if it’s casual that’s cool too since this is primarily for dating. Hammer museum? American Cinemateque? Trivia at Barney’s? Cooking together as friends w tension? lmk


r/bruindating • • Jul 31 '26

26M18F [MF4M] looking for guys around our own age

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An openminded couple on our way to USA and looking to meet some guy(s) around our own age. They say age is just a number, but in our case we want to stick to "around our own age". Threesome or more is welcome, but only focused on her. Preference for a fit/normal body and some information in the message. Sending picture helps if there are many reply's. We can also send pictures back.


r/bruindating • • Jul 24 '26

M27 experienced and open to anything natural

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It's a Friday, so imma just put myself out there for the ladies here. I'm relatively experienced and got out of serious dating so I'm down for something natural and chill. I'm open to it evolving in the future if that's what we want mutually.

Feel free to hit me up on dm, down to share face pics before we meet, no nudes (give or receive) before we meet pls. Also down to share "tested and clean" status if it gets to that :)


r/bruindating • • Jul 23 '26

19 M4F friends with benefits🤷‍♂️

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Start of a new school year and why not have something fun. Looking for something calm where we can be good friends but yk do more on the side lol. We can talk to get to know each other more before hand but something to keep us busy during the school year


r/bruindating • • Jul 04 '26

Looking for a chill dude that wants to watch Harry Potter and bro cuddle.

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Just like the title says. Looking for a chill (preferably masculine) guy that just wants to hangout and watch HP and maybe bro cuddle. Not looking for sex. Cool with having some drinks if you are down.

Hmu with a face pic and your age. Lets make this happen!


r/bruindating • • Jun 19 '26

25 ftm vibing

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Gonna be on campus tomorrow lets have fun

Imma ftm trans guy looking for a good time


r/bruindating • • Jun 17 '26

21 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for a Summer FWB or hookup! :)

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r/bruindating • • Jun 11 '26

M4F bohemians WANTED

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now that finals are over I wanna do something I’ve been imagining for a long time. I want to lock us up in my room tonight and we do nothing but get naked and read books and make love. I want to have a crazy and memorable night. We’ll let our desires and sensibilities filled with happiness.


r/bruindating • • Jun 07 '26

f4f wlw

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it’s pride month and would love to get to know a beautiful woman
if you’re curious i can help you explore yk
lets see where things go and a date night would be lovely for us
wlw :)


r/bruindating • • Jun 04 '26

21 asian 5"10 Looking to vibe before the year ends

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Lowk just want someone to chill and have some fun with before summer hits. 5’10 ucla junior east asian, big into sports so always down to be active, but honestly I just wanna cuddle too lol. End of year so we should make the most of it. Im down to grab coffee first so we can actually get to know each other and then see where it goes. No pressure at all, just lmk if ur interested :)