I've been pretty depressed and trying to find things I enjoy doing to fill my time. But I'm just kinda lost. I usually bounce between Newark and Wilmington. I really miss living in Sussex because my friends were there and I'm more of a beach person than a woodsy/creek person.

The only things I enjoy doing are going out to grab food or drinks with friends but everyone's pretty busy with their own lives, partners, or families. I also feel like people don't like being social anymore and it's gotten too expensive. I know drinking isn't the healthiest so trying to avoid that because I have struggled with it in the past.

I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas on staying busy locally as the winter looms ahead. I'm a lesbian, I enjoy sports, I don't want to join a walk club. I just want to do things again that make me happy.