This is my first time posting here, so please be respectful.
I dated an Emirati man for over a year, and in October, I discovered that he was engaged to another woman. When I confronted him, he denied it and insisted she was just his sister, even though my instincts told me otherwise. Eventually, I found her Instagram and confirmed my suspicions.
When I asked him to make a decision, he told me he would never marry her, that he was choosing me, and that he would speak to his parents. However, the very next day, he followed her again and went out with her.
He keeps saying he's stuck between me and his family, but he still treats me well, buys me things, and tells me he loves me. He has never directly said he wants to leave me.
I admit I've been emotional and sometimes treated him badly because of the situation, but he continues to hold on to our relationship.
I'm not Arab, so I'm trying to understand whether family expectations or arranged marriages could explain his behavior.
If he intends to marry someone else, why does he keep holding on to me? Do you think he genuinely loves me, or is he just afraid to let me go?
I'd appreciate honest advice and perspectives from people who've experienced something similar.