From: And it is perhaps from another impression which I received at Montjouvain, some years later,
To: …whatever names else be given it, is the one true, terrible and lasting form of cruelty.
Summary
The narrator witnesses sadism for the first time. He’s walking near M. Vinteuil’s house and peers in to find a remarkable scene between Vinteuil’s daughter and her lover.
Mlle. Vinteuil is alone, mourning the recent death of her father, which the narrator’s family partly blames on the daughter’s immoral lifestyle. The narrator reflects on the little pieces of music that were mostly not written down, “recorded only in his memory,” ones the family believes were “of little or no real value in themselves.”
She moves a small photograph of her father from the mantelpiece to a little table by the couch. Then her friend arrives, and the sadism begins. The daughter has inherited scruples and restraints from her father, so she tries to close the window shutters, but her friend tells her to leave them open. The daughter says people will see them, and she makes a joke about how people will see them “reading.”
The friend kisses Mlle. Vinteuil, and they chase each other around the room. Mlle. Vinteuil collapses on the sofa and pretends to notice the picture of her dad for the first time: “Oh! there’s my father’s picture looking at us; I can’t think who can have put it there; I’m sure I’ve told them twenty times, that is not the proper place for it.”
The friend responds with the first indisputable moment of sadism: “Let him stay there. He can’t trouble us any longer. D’you think he’d start whining, d’you think he’d pack you out of the house if he could see you now, with the window open, the ugly old monkey?”
Mlle. Vinteuil pretends to beg her friend to be nice, but this is all part of their performance. She not-so-secretly loves her friend’s cruelty and how it contrasts with the kindness she shows Mlle. Vinteuil. The friend says she would like to spit on his photograph, and Mlle. Vinteuil continues the performance.
The narrator reflects on how the daughter’s sadism is mixed with the sense that she’s doing something wrong and that this sense is what brings the thrill. He makes a convincing argument that the thrill stems from the fact that “even sensual pleasure appears to them as something bad, a privilege reserved for the wicked…it was not evil that gave her the idea of pleasure, that seemed to her attractive; it was pleasure, rather, that seemed evil.”
He ends by noting that the “one true, terrible and lasting form of cruelty” is the indifference many people share toward strangers’ suffering, and that her pleasure at the cruelty is only possible because of her moral compass.
Reflection
It’s appropriate that the first scene with real sexual tension is witnessed, not experienced. For much of the novel, most clearly in the “Swann in Love” section, the narrator is a voyeur.
Here, he’s peeking in on something he doesn’t fully understand, which is another common occurrence in the early parts of the novel. He hasn’t experienced sexual passion yet, and he might not fully understand what homosexual love can look like. He’s not just watching; he’s decoding. The future narrator, the one writing this account, will have theories on sadism, but in the moment, he’s no more than a young Peeping Tom, thrilled at the girls’ behavior; their worldliness highlights his innocence.
The scene is also an apt introduction to sexuality because it doesn’t occur as a pure joy. The narrator worries he might get caught watching, and, more pressingly, Mlle. Vinteuil mixes her sexual joy with shame and sadism. Importantly, the shame is tied in with the fact that she’s sleeping with another girl. That’s the original evil that led to her dad’s pain. The sadism present here after his death—playing with the picture, threatening to spit on it, calling him “an old monkey”—isn’t the original sin in her eyes. It’s downstream of a profound evil that many 21st century readers barely think about: same-sex love.
All of this—the voyeurism, sadism, and homosexuality—join to make this scene a fantastic intro to sex. In ISOLT, sex is never simple. It brings agony and ecstasy, changes characters, and alters social standing. It determines identities.
Proust uses Mlle. Vinteuil and her companion’s psychology to subvert expectations. He points out the irony in the fact that the pleasure the daughter gains from the cruelty can arise only because she’s not completely cruel, so she can see it as something foreign and exciting. Wickedness is a costume for her, and this aspect is what makes it so enticing. It makes sense for her to confuse wickedness with pleasure in a homophobic and prude society. The taboo must become part of the allure.
He ends on a strong note by pointing out that the only true cruelty is indifference, which reminds me of his indifference to his aunt’s death and also his desire to be cruel to Francoise. The idea presented here is overly simple; there are other types of cruelty. But indifference is an underdiscussed type. Would it be any better if she completely forgot her father? Is it better if your last lover forgot your name? I think many of us, the narrator and Proust included, would prefer the sadism of a past lover’s thoughts than the lack of thoughts altogether.
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